WriteOn

WriteOn is the journey of one person's desire to write. WriteOn is about the joy and frustration writing can bring to one person's life. With several roles including wife, divorcée, mother, step-mother, full time employee and student; some days writing more than a shopping list can be challenging. WriteOn is about the experience of a very ordinary woman and her dream to be all and more.

Words to live by...

"The time which we have at our disposal everyday is elastic; the passions that we feel expand it, those that we inspire contract it; and habit fills up what remains...
Marcel Proust

Sunday, June 13, 2010

Farewell

Dear friends and colleagues,

As the year draws to a close I felt it timely to say good bye. For those who may not have noticed, I have been away on leave since mid August and will not be returning as a staff member.
Despite what some of you may have been told I was not at any time on sick leave. I am not going to bore you with the details of my departure except to say that I was saddened to end my employment in this way.
Over the past three months I have had my life turned upside down; my character and integrity called into question and in the end lost my job. A judgment call was made on how I live my personal life, the decisions I needed to make to support my children and the values I uphold. Somehow my value as an employee was overshadowed by my private life.
I’m not sure about anyone else but I found this confronting and offensive.
Many times I have heard it said that hard things happen in your life and they make you stronger, build character and resiliency; so if they are correct, then I must not be a very fast learner. I have in my life had enough trauma, distress and heartache to last several life times and so when I found myself facing yet another challenge I was a little dumbfounded.
Despite feeling coerced and manipulated, I chose to defend myself against the school’s interpretation of the guidelines. The final resolution of this situation has left me with a sense of justice. The process however, has been costly on many fronts, but none so much as my own children, my fiancĂ© and the children I had the privilege to work with. I am grieved that the decisions made affected my students so much. I miss them. I miss the many staff members who made my days enjoyable. There are in fact many things I miss about working but little of it stems from the institution itself.
Finally I would like to thank you all for your friendship, the many laughs and many challenges given to me while I was a part of the team. I wish you all a very safe holiday time.
Merry Christmas and Goodbye
Audra